ASJA Direct - Lisa Bonos

Lisa Bonos is the lead writer and editor for Solo-ish, a Washington Post blog about single life. Before launching Solo-ish in 2015, she spent 10 years as an editor on The Post’s opinion and business desks.

In the podcast, Lisa spoke with journalist, Writing Professor for NYU and Writer’s Digest and writing coach  Estelle Erasmus about the following:

  • How she created Soloish
  • What she looks for in an essay
  • Submission tips
  • Her background in publishing
  • Some of her most popular essays
  • How to contact her

Click here to access the recording

 
Read Estelle’s blog post on Lisa Bonos

Follow Estelle Erasmus on TwitterFacebookInstagram and on her website for publishing advice and editor interviews

Register for Estelle’s Writing Parenthood course for Spring 2019 at New York University’s School of Professional Studies

Register for Estelle’s Writer’s Digest classes:

Writing the Personal Essay

Getting Started in Writing

Pitch an Article (2 week bootcamp on pitching)

Lisa’s Links from Soloish:

https://www.washingtonpost.com/people/lisa-bonos/?utm_term=.402954515acc

Some popular essays:

I tried to fall in love with myself…it was harder than I expected
When my girlfriend was groped right in front of me, I didn’t believe her
I was judged for having sex after my husband died. I think he would have understood.
‘It’s tough for me to know where the line is’: The #MeToo era is making dating more confusing
No one tells you life as a 40-year-old single woman could be this good

The pieces Lisa wrote about the sexual misconduct allegations against Aziz Ansari also did well:

Aziz Ansari fashions himself a dating expert. But clearly he’s still learning.
What’s in Aziz Ansari’s dating book, ‘Modern Romance’? Not much sex talk.
Here’s how Aziz Ansari could use ‘Master of None’s’ next season to rebuild his image

Follow Lisa on Twitter:@lisabonos [twitter.com].

 

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